Try not to worry. Worry never accomplished anything, it just delays us finding a solution to the challenge.To achieve objectivity, look at the problem as a challenge instead of an obstacle.Imagine looking down on it from high above the earth thereby detaching yourself from it, imagine you are in an airplane high above the earth and you are observing it from above the clouds.

 Often times challenges are presented to us as a way of developing patience,remember everything happens in it's own time. Take the time to think out the perfect outcome and release the situation to the universe, then let God take care of it. That doesn't mean to forget about the problem and not do anything, it just means that one should have the faith it will turn out for the highest good of all concerned ,release it and be done with it.

Be confident in knowing you can change your attitude, often times a change in attitude will change the situation and thus give you a more positive attitude. They kind of work hand in hand.

Embrace your problems, befriend them and learn from them. That is why the universe presented the circumstance to you in the first place. It is a learning experience and the situation will be presented in various forms until the lesson is learned, better to learn it sooner than later.

As soon as the lesson is complete, life goes on , and you move on to the next life lesson.

Remember,God never gives you more than you can handle, you are a survivor. If it doesn't kill you , it makes you stronger. On some level of consciousness , we all volunteer for these challenges , so if you volunteered, just know you wouldn't volunteer for something you didn't have the knowledge and resources to solve.

In your own time and way, you're going to solve this. In the process you going to find strength you didn't know you had and grace to deal with what ever comes along.

Soon , you'll be on the other side of the problem, and it's just  a matter of time until you will look back on this time in your life and draw strength from the knowledge that even though the road was rocky , you persevered and carried on.

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